
Tips for NICU parents
Texas Children’s Newborn
Center offers more than 55 years of experience in providing support for the
families of critically ill infants. Our staff offers the following tips for parents
who may face a NICU experience.
Participate in your baby’s
care
Participate in your baby’s care while in
the NICU. Simple tasks like feeding or changing a diaper are as important for your
baby as they are for you. The NICU team at Texas Children’s encourages you to participate
in your baby's care, even if he or she is critically ill.
Bond with your baby
At Texas Children’s, we encourage
parents to create emotional bonds with their
babies by touching and holding them as soon
as the baby is able. Parent-infant
bonding through activities such as kangaroo care (skin-to-skin holding),
learning a baby’s emotional cues, creating a scrapbook
and providing breast milk helps create a
positive emotional attachment. We also
encourage parents to participate in routine
care such as feeding, changing diapers and
bathing the baby.
Talk to others
Talk to other NICU families and to parents of NICU graduates. It can provide immense
comfort. Texas Children’s offers “family ambassadors” that are matched with parents
of babies currently experiencing similar medical challenges. Ask your care team
to be matched with a family who can share their NICU journey.
Ask for help
Feel free to talk openly about your emotions
with your baby’s NICU doctors, nurses
and social workers. This care team may be able to recommend
programs and support groups to help you cope with the experience of having a baby
in the NICU.
At Texas Children’s, on-staff
child life specialists and social workers help parents and siblings through
this difficult time.
They also may be able to provide a referral to a mental health
specialist.
Plan for the future
Transitioning from life in the NICU to life
at home is often when parents struggle the most. By planning ahead, you can ease
some of the stress that comes with the transition.
The first step is to identify
a medical team close to home that will be able to care for your baby after you leave
the hospital.

